Talk to Seneschal Varel in the Vigil's Keep - Throne Room about her Joining and she will become a Grey Warden. This can be done at any time after she joins your party—although for story purposes it does not make sense until The Righteous Path is completed and she asks to become a Warden.
Also, if the Wending Wood was the last place you visited before the main battle that the Seneschal prompts, she cannot become a Grey Warden unless you travel to Vigil's Keep directly after Velanna joins the party AND another companion's joining quest is open (PC 1.04).
- A mod that fixes this bug for the PC can be downloaded here
- Velanna becomes a Grey Warden.
- Velanna gains +1 Talent point. The same occurs for all successful Joining rituals.
- Justice disapproves (-10) of Velanna escaping justice by joining the Grey Wardens.
- Oghren disapproves (-3) when you first recruit Velanna (before you go into the Silverite Mines).
- Anders approves (+2) when you allow Velanna to become a Grey Warden.
- Sigrun approves (+3) when you allow Velanna to become a Grey Warden.