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Romance is one of the areas which I feel Dragon Age (and Mass Effect) come off most strongly really, but there are some things which could be added/changed to make it all better.

Returning to the fixed sexuality in Origins is the first, the DA2 system just didnt work really, most of the characters just didnt feel right

More complex romences, perhaps you'll be romancing someone who then takes an interest in another companion? Or someone takes an interest in you while their married or something like that.

What do you guys want to see romance wise in DA3? Shawtre (talk) 14:40, January 14, 2013 (UTC)

Truth be told I always thought the payoff should be more, shall we say, erotic? I am not saying it should be over the top, just a few steps down from Witcher 2 territory.

After all, Dragon Age freely shows violence and death, why for the most part has not a similar approach been made in reguards to sex? especially in story-drivern games where complex character development takes away the impression that sex is being shown for the sake of sex. —Preceding unsigned comment added by (talk) 15:12, 14 January 2013‎

Because in the US, if the Mass Effect controversy is any indication, chopping a man's head off is perfectly okay, but side-boob? OUTRAGE! MORAL FAILINGS! SECULAR HEATHENS!!! *foams at mouth RShepard227 (talk) 20:43, January 20, 2013 (UTC)
You're over simplifying. It wasn't the US, it was Fox News. And even most of the panelists who were on tv to condemn it later on admitted that they hadn't seen it beforehand and recanted their statements.--Liam Sionnach (talk) 22:21, January 20, 2013 (UTC)
True, I was trying to forget that part. But it still speaks to a very stick-up-the-ass, anti-sex mentality and double-standard that runs rampant here in the US. RShepard227 (talk) 00:17, January 21, 2013 (UTC)

Interesting topic. I don't want all options bisexual like in DA2, Fenris and Merrill didn't seem to be affected by same gender. I want all romances true and full, all unlocking Paramour achievement, Sebastian didn't unlock this just like in ME2 Kelly and in ME3 Diana, those mentioned ME allowed to romance someone else, that's strange.

I also want LI options to be not so biased like in DA2, only Isabela was purely neutral and Sebastian didn't care much about side, he just wanted one person dead to stay in company. Fenris and Anders were extremists, especially the letter, Merrill was more neutral, but she like Fenris needed to be persuaded to stay, if I choose side they wouldn't choose. I dislike extremists.

I want LI options to be liked for their personalities, not just appearances. My sister complained Alistair is a childish prince and Zevran a libidous murderer, 2 exteremes. I liked Leliana because she was nice, not just cute, when Morrigan was a hot woman with cold personality on the beginning.

Marriage is too far for me, but I'd appreciate romantic scenes like dates and romance only quests. I prefer gift system from DAO with specific gift opening a cutscene like giving a cute nug to Leliana. I'm not erotomaniac, but "hot" scenes would be welcome in DA3 like in ME1 and Witcher2. (talk) 15:29, January 14, 2013 (UTC)Just call me Dlaish fan.

I personally disliked DA2 for having all romance options bisexual. It would make more sense if some were heterosexual and some were not, as in Origins. I also think that there should be more than just 4 romance options all together, as you arn't given much variety (like if the male choices suck compared to some of the female options, if you do not wish to choose that gender). Furthermore, though I wouldn't likely bother, I think there should be a romance option that is strictly homosexual. It's not far to those who with a homosexual relationship that all of their options are bisexual or heterosexual. --R0B45 (talk) 08:36, January 20, 2013 (UTC)

Also I'd like to add, romance options that are racist (i.e. an elf that will not romance humans), those that will end romance because of your choices, and for other party members to initiate romances with each other. This is done in DA2 with Fenris and Isabella, as well as Aveline and Donnic, but it would also make sense if Alistair would have romanced Leliana, as they do in Darkspawn Chronicles.--R0B45 (talk) 08:40, January 20, 2013 (UTC)
Agreed. And to add, I'd like to see one homophobic companion; just for the shear pleasure of making him/her uncomfortable as I make out in public in front of them. Or maybe come across some gay bashers just for the thrill of slaughtering them.
And can we get a BDSM cutscene???Shadizar666 (Ruck Rules) 10:28, January 20, 2013 (UTC)
BDSM cutscene? Like people who wanted to romance their siblings in DA2 weren't enough... Maybe we should add some bestiality too, with mabari and all? -Algol- (talk) 13:09, January 20, 2013 (UTC)
You don't know what BDSM is do you. As for the sibling thing, I'll have to investigate that. Shadizar666 (Ruck Rules) 20:44, January 20, 2013 (UTC)
I know what BDSM is. Do you? -Algol- (talk) 23:35, January 20, 2013 (UTC)
It doesn't need to be too extreme. A few leather suits with appropriately placed slits would already go a long way, and might actually be enough.TheodoricEichen (talk) 23:56, January 30, 2013 (UTC)
Oh look, I didn't know Zevran got wracked [1]. Well, now they have a president to build off of. Shadizar666 (Ruck Rules) 03:48, February 2, 2013 (UTC)

I'd like a middle ground lady that's between the evil-atheist-witch and the bible-thumping-cloistersister-who-has-a-lisp.. and maybe one between the pirate slut and the 9 yr old boy with pointy ears Danthehumanmage (talk) 16:16, January 20, 2013 (UTC)

So as a gay player, I think I agree with most people that it would make more sense to have a gay character as a romance option, and not just all characters be bisexual. That being said, I don't think we deserve sluts like Isabela or Zevran as our options. We deserve truetrue gay representations, that would not be romanceable as a straight character.

I also agree with one of the posters above that is might be nice to have a homophobic companion. someone who would argue with you for being who you are. but that would be a fary down wish, since I still want someone to recognize me as a blood mage, but that's yet to happen.

I would like 6 romance option instead of 4. We generally have 10 companions and so 6 of them should be love interests and of these 6 (3 male & 3 female) 2 (1 male & 1 female) should be straight, 2 (1 male & 1 female) should be bisexual, and 2 (1 male & 1 female) should be gay/lesbian. This way regardless of the hero's sexual orientation they have 4 options. When I say romance option, I mean real companions with deep character and no extremists like Fenris and Anders or no child like Merrill. Also, I want romance options, actually every companion, to do something for my character. For instance, companion quests you do all the work for the companion and you get approval but none of them actually does anything for The Warden or Hawke. Romance in DA2 was worse they show time passes between acts but nothing happens with your LI. ~ King Warden

Fully agree. I'd also like to see more romantic involvement; I mean, after the romance was completed, that was it, aside from the break-up. It doesn't even have to be part of the main content; creating a DLC would be good enough for those of us who are interested in extra drama. Imagine, you main squeeze out of the blue wants you to release their main rival, "but baby, that's our healer..." Shadizar666 (Ruck Rules) 20:48, January 20, 2013 (UTC)

More than just Companions should be romanceable just for extra measure and to provide the variety so many people are looking for, sort of like in ME3. For example, in DA2 you have the opportunity to Free an Elven Slave, take her in as a servant, or make her your own Slave. Perhaps a character similar to this, who has no combat experience could be chosen for a romance anyway because she's in a fixed location?

As for the Bisexual Romances, I agree that they seemed extremely unrealistic in all but Isabela's case. Not to sound homophobic, but when I played a male character it was odd to have Anders constantly make comments in a not so subtle way (even though I was clearly Anti-Mage with every character... and I was with Merrill) and then when I play a female have virtually the same comments (then again I just hated Anders from DA: A). For whatever reason, I'd like Bethany to be a romanceable option for male characters provided she survived DA: 2 (as well as her or Carver as the option to be a Companion since I iliked both characters a lot).-- (talk) 22:56, January 20, 2013 (UTC)

There was a castle in concept art, maybe we could get a servant in their who would be Gay, Like Cortez and Traynor in ME3. Maybe have a steamy relationship with the cook or be doing the butler in the closet. Also I can't agree more with the above post about having 6 romance options. I want more than two guys and two girls, after multiple play throughs they get boring. Furthermore I want more races to romance. Merrill is currently the only female elven romance in the dragon age franchise, this should be rectified. I want a male dwarf with buckets of chest hair for our female demographic and a red haired elf as a romance option. Is that so wrong? B.S.S.T. (talk)

I would find it interesting if they made a couple of severely hedonistic characters not just characters that sleep with anything that moves because they were forced into marriage/ lost the only person they loved like Isabella and Zevron. It would be different if instead of an actual romance you can just create a pseudo harem of people who love to party and sleep around including companions and random people you meet.-- (talk) 02:52, January 21, 2013 (UTC)

No doubt. I mean, in DAO, Wynne had quite a few dirty quips for Alistair; including during the DLC Return to Ostagar, "it wouldn't be the first time I woke up next to a younger man." Shadizar666 (Ruck Rules) 03:34, January 21, 2013 (UTC)

I also want development of romance in DA series. Sex is not everything, sympathy is adorable and things like rival romances are very interesting. Still I don't wish complex romances like in Japanese date games. Erotic cutscenes will make players to pay attention. Sex and violance always attract viewers. (talk) 19:21, January 28, 2013 (UTC)

If III turns into a Japanese dating sim, than we got bigger problems than the game. In that event, this is how we'll know there's going to be a Japanese invasion of Canada.--Lurooke Surana (talk) 02:40, January 29, 2013 (UTC)
Being capitulated by Japan? Thats not too bad, I could live with that.--R0B45 (talk) 17:22, January 29, 2013 (UTC)
Did I say problem? I meant event.--Lurooke Surana (talk) 18:32, January 29, 2013 (UTC)

I would actually think it pretty cool if you could marry your LI. I thought it was lame how I couldn't, I mean we did everything except actually tie the knot. It was cool that you could marry Sebastian as a female and Anora in DAO as a male. To bad they never actually showed the wedding though. Maybe they could have it be an option or have it come up in conversation without it actually being absolutely necessary for the romance. Bioware has had some convincing romances in that past, I bet they could pull it off. Frostico (talk) 21:42, January 29, 2013 (UTC)Frostico

I would like to have the option available, but not be essential to the romance subplot.--Lurooke Surana (talk) 22:22, January 29, 2013 (UTC)
Blasted pcIcon pc mods; they have stuff that just pisses me off. Here's a Dalish wedding [2] on youtube. Shadizar666 (Ruck Rules) 07:57, January 30, 2013 (UTC)
Shame some mods like this aren't canon.
In SWTOR were marriage options, so DA3 has possibility of developing this as well, both games made by same company. (talk) 22:12, January 29, 2013 (UTC) Just call me Dalish fan.

I think a lot of people hit on some good points. I'd love to see marriage as a possibility, and side quests that are specific to romance. I'd also like to see characters cheat on you as has been mentioned, and others who just aren't interested in you. I romanced Fenris and Anders in the game, but it would have been much more believable if Fenris had turned me down since I was a mage who was very pro-mage. I can't imagine if it were real that Fenris would have been able to look past this. Same goes for Anders if I was a pro-templar champion. Throw in that Anders love with Karl made it pretty obvious he was gay, or at least leaned gay, so I think any female champion would have had a hard time turning him. Plus, as a gay player, I love that Fenris was an option, but I don't think he would have actually hit for both teams. So if they could make the romances more believable, optional side quests for them.


My characters would probably kill romance options that cheated on them, *cackle*, and Anders only mentions Karl as his 'first' if you're a male hawke. If female hawke he implies they were just friends. And I think if Fenris had to pick a "team", he'd be homosexual. His relationship with Danarius was "intimate". Danarius obviously sexually abused him. Even though he's angry and hates everything about Danarius, I really get the submissive vibe from him. Personally I think Anders is just a very very feminine straight guy, since he hit on my female warden like crazy. P.S. I'd like to see a blonde romance option (female), since we've never had one before. Danthehumanmage (talk) 00:55, February 7, 2013 (UTC)

I stand corrected, never played through as a female so I didn't know Anders mentioned Karl as a friend. I don't get the gay vibe from fenris, but I do get the I was abused vibe from him, which is differnet.

I get the vibe from Anders to be entirely submissive, but from Fenris it's more of a dominant thing, especially witha mage, since he's so angry about his past experience with a mage.

I'm a hopeless romantic type, so I want in DA3 warm romantic scenes, not just hot scenes. I know love without sex is wrong, but only sex looks so empty for me. My character will search for a sympathy, not a whore. (talk) 13:43, February 9, 2013 (UTC)

I'd be very entertained if Bioware considered an experiment for DA3: no romances. At all. Seriously, who said videogames even need romances? Though this would actually show how many people are into DA (or ME) solely because of romances. Like it's a dating sim or something. -Algol- (talk) 14:32, February 9, 2013 (UTC)

Dude, you ever noticed how many -- and how many pages containing -- romance devoded threads there are on Bioware Antisocial Network? If they ever canned romancey stuff, it wouldn't just cause a shitstorm, it'd be a shitquake with a consequent shitcunami.
Also Anders is totally gay. He hits on dude Hawke first and a dudette Hawke has to press on him something bad and he valiantly keeps resisting, and he spouts faaaaar less cringeworthy Twilight shit when done with dude. </br> Dorquemada (talk) 17:07, February 9, 2013 (UTC)
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