Fenris/Approval

Friendship
Friendship with Fenris can generally be earned by siding against any mages, not being sympathetic towards his problems but understanding them, being ruthless to slavers and being kind to the innocents- particularly elves and slaves- in the game.

Act 1


 * Act of Mercy: In the cave tell Grace to go back to the circle and gain: . Note: refusing to kill Thrask to help the mages at this point will result in if he is with you. Once outside the cave turn the mages over to the circle to net  and some more negative points from Anders.
 * Cullen: When speaking to him, stating you support the Templars earns.
 * Enemies Among Us: Telling the templars Keran may be possessed:.
 * Enemies Among Us: After completing the quest, speak with Knight-Captain Cullen again and side with the templars:.
 * An Errant Letter: "Pay me or I'll expose you:".
 * Visiting the Gallows with him in the party, pick "The Circle is necessary" for.
 * Long Way Home: When Merrill opens the barrier with blood magic, pick "The demon, you mean."
 * Long Way Home: When settling Merrill into her new home, choosing to tell her that It may not be a good idea to visit her soon will earn you.
 * Tranquility: When meeting Anders the first time, Investigate and select the middle option. Answer with "That's a little controversial," or if Hawke is a mage, "You want me to fight Templars?" This will earn you.
 * Wayward Son: Declaring Feynriel a menace:
 * Wayward Son: Telling Danzig he can't go, or possibly letting Fenris torture him during :.
 * Wayward Son: In the caverns before combat, the slaver has a knife to Feynriel's neck; telling the slaver to go ahead and kill Feynriel:.
 * Wayward Son: Sending Feynriel to The Circle: .<

Act 2


 * If you have Fenris in your party and traveling to Bone Pit, you will get A Bitter Pill quest. Hunters will demand Fenris. Selecting "Fenris is not a slave!".
 * A Bitter Pill: Select "We go get them".
 * A Bitter Pill: Asking Orana to work for you, then telling Fenris you will pay her.
 * Demands of The Qun: Agree to single combat at Fenris' suggestion:.
 * Night Terrors: Reject Torpor's offer
 * Dissent: If you tell Ella to get back to the Circle:.

Act 3


 * Gamlen's Greatest Treasure: Tell the cousin to go meet Gamlen:.

Rivalry
Rivalry with Fenris can generally be earned by siding with any mages in the game.

Act 1


 * Act of Mercy: Telling Grace that you will distract the templars or that you will kill Thrask: ;
 * Act of Mercy: Lying to the Templars:.
 * Bait and Switch: Upon completion of the quest, if Hawke is a mage, Fenris will question your motives when you recruit him. "Seeking power" will earn ; "Survival" and "Find Out" yield ; nothing earns ; asking if it will be a problem earns .)
 * Enemies Among Us: Recommending that Keran keep his job as templar earns.
 * An Errant Letter: Tell Thrask you will keep his secret.
 * Long Way Home: When Merrill opens the barrier with blood magic, pick: It did work.
 * Long Way Home: At the end, assuring Merrill that you will visit soon:.
 * Wayward Son: Stating that you wish to help Feynriel when accepting the quest earns.
 * Wayward Son: Let Fenris get information out of Danzig and then spare him..
 * Wayward Son: Letting Varric deal with the Slaver Leader Wayward Son: Convincing Feynriel to go to the Dalish.
 * Visiting the Gallows with him in the party: Earn points depending on your answer. For the most, pick the: It is wrong to oppress Mages option .  For the least, pick: The Circle doesn't work option.
 * During personal conversations at his mansion, Fenris rewards pitying phrases like "I'm sorry" with, and harsh remarks like "Get over it" with.

Act 2


 * On entering the Gallows: same as for Act 1 (if you have not already done it).
 * A Bitter Pill: During the first ambush, offer to make a deal . A Bitter Pill: When talking to Orana, offer to have her work for you and then suggest you'll make her a slave : After the ambush, avoid going to the caves.  Slavers will eventually ambush you in the city.  Tell Fenris to "Watch his tone" for . A Bitter Pill: After killing Hadriana, comment that not all mages are not like what he says.  A Bitter Pill: When you arrive at your estate, Fenris will be there. Tell him to let go of his past.
 * Demands of The Qun: Refuse the duel Fenris' suggests (must be in your party):.
 * Dissent: If you fail to save Ella:.
 * Dissent: If you say to Ella to get out of the city:.
 * Mirror Image: Choosing "Don't blame yourself" after the fight with the Varterral gives.
 * Mirror Image: Give Merrill the arulin'holm:.

Act 3


 * Justice (quest): Accepting the quest via 'Kind' / diplomatic responses:.
 * Justice (quest): Agreeing to help Anders get into the Chantry:
 * On the Loose: Blaming the situation on the Templars when talking with Meredith at the end of the quest:.
 * Alone: Offer to make a deal with Danarius: Alone: Convince Fenris not to kill his sister.
 * Best Served Cold: Speaking in support of the mages:.