Anders/Approval

Vigil's Keep Throne Room
Automatic conversation upon returning to the Vigil's Keep Throne Room, but can be initiated (Requires at least 30(?) approval). Speak to Anders upon completion of Freedom for Anders (Begins with, "May I point out that you're all right?")
 * 1) So what would you do if you didn't have to be a Warden?
 * 2) *Return to Court, of couse. (If you married royalty in Origins)
 * 3) *Strange question to ask out of the blue. (to 2)
 * 4) *I don't "have" to do anything. (to 3)
 * 5) *Once you're a Warden, there's no going back. (to 2)
 * 6) *I'd leave. There's plenty to do elsewhere. (to 3)
 * 7) Does nobody ever leave the Wardens?
 * 8) *Are you planning on leaving? (to 3)
 * 9) *You can leave, but you'll be tainted forever. (to 3)
 * 10) *I'm sure some do leave, sure. (to 3)
 * 11) I've never liked the idea of being trapped somewhere, to be honest. It reminds me of the Circle. You'd think after my seventh escape attempt, they'd give me credit for trying.
 * 12) *Seven escape attempts? (to 4)
 * 13) *How is it that they didn't just execute you? (to 4) (non-mage wardens)
 * 14) *And they didn't just make you tranquil? (to 4) (mage wardens)
 * 15) *Are you thinking of escaping here, too? (to 4)
 * 16) You know, there is one thing I miss about the tower. My cat.
 * 17) *You had a cat? (to 5)
 * 18) *Why didn't you take it with you? (to 5)
 * 19) *Miss your little kitty, do you? (to 5)
 * 20) (If kitten was given to Anders prior to conversation)'' The only thing I ever missed about the Circle was that cat, to be honest.
 * 21) *And now you have a new one. (ends conversation)
 * 22) *So you mentioned before. (to 5)
 * 23) *They let you have a cat in the tower? (to 5)
 * 24) There were days when the only person I saw was that stupid cat. Except for him not being a person. Still, I liked him. Poor Mr. Wiggums.
 * 25) *Why 'poor Mr. Wiggums'?
 * 26) *I can't believe you called him that.
 * 27) *Let's just move on.
 * Go ahead.
 * I'm 'all right'?
 * What brought this on?
 * Oh, you're not so much trouble.
 * I'm glad to have you around.
 * So glad I could make it happen for you.
 * Coupled with an early death, yes.
 * This is serious business.
 * Just stay useful. (ends conversation)

Vigil's Keep
Statue of Andraste in the Courtyard
 * Aren't all humans? (available to a dwarf or elf Warden)
 * Don't say such things! (available to a human Warden)
 * It's just a statue.
 * Are you looking for realism? It's an icon.
 * I don't know much about human religion. (available to a dwarf or elf Warden)
 * She was fighting against mages.
 * She'd probably think it was a good start.
 * She'd probably be confused by it.
 * I completely agree.
 * But mages are dangerous.

"Kitten" Gift Dialogue
 * Kitten Gift
 * He can stay at the keep, then.
 * What do you want to do with him, then?
 * Maybe you're right.

Amaranthine
Anders:"It comes with the smell of dogs and dust, but the freedom is in there too." After clicking on the tree outside the city gamtes After speaking to Namaya in Amaranthine. (Begins with, "I...suppose that requires some explanation.")
 * You think being a Grey Warden is freedom?
 * You really don't care for the Circle of Magi, do you?
 * That's just someone baking a pie.
 * But you ARE a Blood Mage. (Available if Anders has the Blood Mage specialization)
 * Was the Circle of Magi so bad?
 * Maybe you should accept the inevitable.
 * I'm surprised they didn't do it sooner.
 * But mages are dangerous.
 * Welcome to the rest of the world. For any Elven or Dwarven Wardens,  for Human Noble Warden
 * There has to be a better way.
 * I can sympathize.
 * Pretty girl. Right here. (Available to a female Warden)
 * Sounds reasonable.
 * That might be stretching it.
 * With power comes responsibility.
 * I think you're aiming too low.
 * No! Not at all! Don’t be silly.
 * What was she talking about?
 * Friend of yours, I take it?
 * To find a cache?
 * You don’t seem very good at eluding them.
 * What did she learn?
 * But you’re a Grey Warden now.
 * (If Warden is a mage) Do you think they might have my phylactery?
 * If that’s what you want...
 * This isn’t a good idea, Anders.
 * The answer is no. (ends conversation)
 * You’re right. They shouldn’t be allowed to control you.

Kal'Hirol
Lyrium Bucket in the Trade Quarter
 * Don’t the dwarves object?
 * You thinking of going into business?
 * You don’t care for the Chantry much, I see.
 * Sounds horrible. // Sound familiar. (if Warden is mage)
 * They don’t have much choice.
 * What’s the alternative?
 * Perspective is good.
 * Is this all you talk about?
 * Instead, you’re a Grey Warden.
 * We become forgotten and die young.
 * We remain vigilant.
 * That sounds like a good start.
 * Whatever we want to.

Friendship
Friendship with Anders can generally be earned by siding with the mages or by being agreeable to him in conversation, or by directly confronting demons and blood mages.

Act 1

 * Act of Mercy: Tell Thrask you will help the mages  Act of Mercy: Agree to help the mages escape (either by killing Thrask, or convincing him that they are dead)  Act of Mercy: Choose "I'm your best friend" dialogue upon exiting the cave after agreeing to help without killing Thrask
 * The Deep Roads Expedition: Refuse to deal with the Rock Wraith/Demon  The Deep Roads Expedition:  Agree to find the Warden's for Carver or Bethany
 * An Errant Letter: Tell Thrask you will keep his secret
 * Enemies Among Us: Ask Anders to assist with Idunna's compulsion: (note that this can be negated if you send her to the templars)
 * Enemies Among Us: Ask Anders to check if Keran is possessed: (note that this can be negated if you say you will have to tell the templars)
 * Enemies Among Us: The final conversation with Cullen in the Gallows Courtyard can earn various friendship points. "It's the templars fault": ; "Keran should keep his status"
 * Long Way Home: When Merrill opens the barrier with blood magic, pick: "The demon, you mean."
 * Loose Ends (Meeran): Refuse to kill Harriman
 * Shepherding Wolves: Accept the quest from Sister Petrice
 * Shepherding Wolves: Refusing to turn over Kotojan
 * Talk to Anders: The Diplomatic answers will result in Choosing the Diplomatic answers and choosing the bottom answer (It's... unexpected) during the section with only heart options will result in  The Diplomatic + Heart answers will result in:
 * Wayward Son: Choosing to let Feynriel go free
 * Visiting the Gallows: with Fenris in the party will initiate a dialog. If Anders is present and you end with "It is wrong to oppress Mages" option

Act 2

 * Dissent: Agree to help Anders
 * Dissent: Stop Anders from killing the girl (star dialog option) (if on the Friendship path)
 * Dissent: In the final conversation, if you simply give Anders Ser Alrik's papers (star dialog option) you will receive . If you talk to him and end the conversation by asking him to stay you can gain as much as . In that conversation, the following choices can net the maximum friendship: "Calm down", "It wasn't your fault" , and then avoid the aggressive paths.
 * Night Terrors: Reject Topor's offer
 * Repentance: If the player chooses the dialogue option when speaking with Allure, "That's a good point." or "Don't listen to her..."
 * Tevinter Chantry Amulet (quest): Give Anders the gift (on the Friendship path)
 * Visit Anders: There is a maximum of to be gained here if you're in a romance,  if you're not. See Quest page for details.

Act 3

 * Alone: Give Fenris to Danarius
 * Haunted: Give Sandal the idol piece to make a rune out of it
 * Justice (quest): Accept the quest via 'Kind/diplomatic responses
 * Agreeing to help Anders get into the Chantry will net at the end of the quest

Rivalry
Rivalry with Anders can generally be earned by siding with the templars or the Circle or by refusing to champion the oppressed or enslaved.

Act 1

 * Act of Mercy: Tell Thrask to deal with the mages himself
 * Act of Mercy: Tell Alain he must return to the Circle (aggressive option)
 * Act of Mercy: Tell Grace you will not help her
 * Act of Mercy: Once you exit the Runaway's Cavern, turn the mages over to the templars
 * An Errant Letter: Tell Thrask pay me or I'll expose you
 * Bait and Switch: Choosing "I'm well aware." when Fenris confronts you with your mage companion(s).
 * Enemies Among Us: Send Idunna to the templars (note that this can be negated if you asked Anders to help with the compulsion)
 * Enemies Among Us: Tell Keran he must go back to the templars. (note this can be negated if you asked Anders to check for possession)
 * Enemies Among Us: The final conversation with Cullen in the Gallows Courtyard can earn various rivalry points. "You're right" ; "You can't take any chances"
 * Long Way Home: When Merrill opens the barrier with blood magic, pick: "It did help us."
 * Loose Ends (Meeran): Kill Harriman.
 * Shepherding Wolves: Reject the quest from Sister Petrice
 * Shepherding Wolves: Hand Ketojan over to the arvaarad
 * Talk to Anders: Choosing anything with a broken heart will result in Choosing all Humourous answers will result in:  Choosing all Aggressive answers will result in:  (note that if you choose the broken heart in the first dialogue wheel, the conversation ends and there is no approval change)
 * Wayward Son: Convincing Feynriel to go to the Circle
 * Wayward Son: Choosing Aggressive dialog option, "I will stop him" when speaking to Arianni in the Alienage
 * Wayward Son: If Feynriel is sent to the Gallows, have Anders in the party when informing Arianni at the end of the quest
 * Visiting the Gallows with Fenris in the party will initiate a dialog. If Anders is present and you end with "The Circle is necessary" option
 * Visiting the Gallows at some point after Enemies Among Us, you can speak to Cullen about the Templars. If Anders is present and you end with "I support the templars" option
 * The Deep Roads Expedition: Deal with the Rock Wraith/Demon

Act 2

 * Dissent: Stop Anders from killing the girl (star dialog option) (if on the Rivalry path)
 * Dissent: In the final dialogue with Anders, take the aggressive path, although you must end by asking him to stay with you.
 * Night Terrors: Tell Keeper Marethari you will make Feynriel Tranquil if needed
 * Repentance: Saying "I do like power..." and "That's a good point" to Allure (without stating you will not betray your friends)
 * Mirror Image: Give the arulin'holm to Merrill
 * Tevinter Chantry Amulet (quest): Give Anders the gift (on the Rivlary path, patch 1.02 or later)
 * Visit Anders: There is a maximum of to be gained here if you're in a romance/flirted in Act 1,  if you're not. See Quest page for details.

Act 3

 * Haunted: Let Varric keep the idol piece
 * Justice: If you questioned him about the potion and the involvement of the Chantry during the quest, go to the Chantry with him in the party afterwards and reveal to Grand Cleric Elthina that one of your companions might be plotting against the Chantry . If you sided with Templars, it's Cullen instead of Elthina.
 * On the Loose: Send Emile de Launcet back to the Circle after allowing him to spend the night with Nella
 * On the Loose: During the final conversation with Meredith, telling him to be quiet after he tries to blame the situation on the Templars and Meredith
 * Best Served Cold: Accepting the quest from Meredith using the options "How can I Help?" and "Very Well."
 * Best Served Cold Telling Samson that the mages must be stopped
 * Best Served Cold Telling Meredith who was involved in the conspiracy against her ("I'll name names")