Bethany Hawke/Approval

Friendship
Friendship with Bethany can generally be earned through acts of kindness, by siding with mages or by supporting family.

Act 1


 * The Destruction of Lothering: If you pick the Aggressive response to Wesley's threatening of Bethany, upon meeting Aveline for the first time
 * Long Way Home: When Merrill opens the barrier with blood magic, say "The demon, you mean".
 * Bait and Switch: Directly defend Bethany at the end when talking to Fenris.
 * Tranquility: When leaving Lirene's Fereldan Imports you will be approached by Angry Fereldan, choosing the option "We're on the same side." instead of deferring to Bethany results in.
 * Tranquility: Deferring to Bethany in the above instance results in, though Aveline Vallen does not gain also.

Rivalry
Rivalry with Bethany can generally be earned by choosing aggressive responses, by siding against mages or by exploiting Fereldans.

Act 1


 * Long Way Home: When Merrill opens the barrier with blood magic, say "It did help us".
 * Bait and Switch: At the end of the quest, agree with Fenris by saying, "I know the risks" of cooperating with a mage.
 * Tranquility: After leaving Lirene's Imports, take an aggressive stance against the Fereldans
 * The Deep Roads Expedition: Leave her behind at home