Talk to Anders

Acquisition
Complete Tranquility and head to Darktown to talk to Anders

Walkthrough
If Anders is in your party, just walk into the clinic and turn around and talk to him, or go to the back of the room where he is standing.

This is a simple conversation, but it proves to be the first opportunity to establish a friendship or rivalry and take the initial step on the road to forging a more intimate relationship with the troublesome mage.

Result
For the highest possible friendship pick, It happens a lot > You did the right thing and when he asks if he is making you uncomfortable say no; male character should follow with I'm sorry. Possible friendship points:14

The first agressive option( don't do it again) precludes future relationships and leads to high rivalry increase.